What are the three marks of a healthy personality? 

• The propensity to see what is good in every person and situation. Starting with your own self and all the good in your life. 
• The ability to quickly let go and forgive others when things do not happen to our liking, starting with yourself. 
• The ability to get along with a wide variety of different people, including all your sub-personalities, all your various faces, moods and mind states.