If the idea that everything is destined suffocates you, then it is better for you to take full responsibility for your actions. If the idea of free will and taking full responsibility suffocates you, then it is better for you to let go and surrender to the unfolding play and flow of this life. Tune into what feels right, for that is presently the right attitude and understanding for you. It may or may not match what the so-called wise ones have to say. It is best to honor your truth and let others honor theirs. - Nithya Shanti.